They say size doesn’t matter.

But we all know that sometimes it truly does!

You like it long, or you like it thick. Or quite likely, you like both.

This is why it’s your lucky day.

I’m here to tell you all about why you should try using a giant dildo, some things you should know about using them, and finally reveal the 5 best large dildo options out there to buy.

Our Pick:

King Cock Extra Girthy

Our experts have chosen this as the best overall pick because not only is it huge, it’s also very realistic. As a bonus, it has a suction cup feature. Definitely a top pick!

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Best Large Dildos for Women

Let Me Guess Why You’re Here

Perhaps you’ve been eager to find out what it’s like to be satisfied by a huge dildo, and where to start looking for one.

Maybe you’ve already had the experience of having a larger than usual penis, or dildo, inside of you, and you’re craving more.

Or maybe you’ve just always felt like you needed more than you’re getting from your average sized partner, or current dildo.

Whatever the reason is, I’m here to help.

Let me start out by answering all of the questions I commonly get asked. Questions I know you have too!

Then we can reveal some actual products.

So, let’s start a quick review:

Why Would I Want to Use These?

large dildo in a woman's hand

As I just mentioned, maybe you’re just craving the feeling of something big inside of you.

Or you’ve been using regular sized dildos and you’re definitely feeling ready to take the next step.

I mean rabbit vibrators and G-spot vibrators are pretty amazing, but sometimes you just crave more.

Using an oversized dildo feels incredible, so why wouldn’t you want to use one?

Aren’t Big Dildos a Bit Intimidating?

Honestly, yes they can be.

At first.

You may not want to get one of these as your very first sex toy, but if you’ve had any experience with regular sized toys you’ll probably be happy you took the next step up into XL category.

You’ll want to go slow, and I’ll go over that in a bit.

But I promise you, once you start regularly using one, you totally won’t regret it!

For more information, and a step by step guide for using your giant dildo the first time, check out this fabulous guide from Love honey.

How Do I Use a Giant Dildo?

It’s your dildo, you can use it absolutely any way you want.

Seriously, the options are endless.

  • You can use it by yourself, or with a partner.
  • Most dildos can be used both vaginally or anally.
  • Or you can use it to practice your oral sex techniques.

If you have a strap on harness you may be able to use your new toy with that and use it to penetrate your partner, or have them penetrate you. Review my recommended strap-0n harnesses here.

What Positions are Best for This Toy?

You may want to start out by laying on your back with a pillow under your bottom in order to open yourself up and allow the penetration to be a bit less restrictive.

After you’ve done that a few times you’ll be able to use it as you would any other dildo, on your stomach, on your side, standing up.

As I said before, the possibilities are totally endless!

Experiment with different positions and let your pleasure dictate what you do next.

You’ll see when I go though my top picks that different dildos offer different features, so you’ll be able to put those features to great, pleasurable use as well.

Anything Else to Consider?

You’ll need to go slow the first few times you use a big dildo.

And don’t forget to relax.

Of course, you’ll always want to stop for a bit, or at least slow down, if you feel at all uncomfortable, or in pain.

Something I’ll always mention, and it’s especially true when it comes to using a larger than usual dildo, is to use plenty of good quality lubricant to help ease it in, and make your entire play time more pleasurable.

You’ll want to make sure you’re all warmed up with plenty of foreplay, and the lube, before you start playing.

You may even want to incorporate some regular sized toys into your foreplay, before you move over to using the next size up.

And it should go without saying, although I’ll say it anyway, that you need to make sure you buy a product made from only quality materials.

Cheap materials, and cheaply made dildos, can crack and break after only a few uses, which could possibly hurt you, and may trap bacteria in the cracks.

But don’t worry, all the options I’m going to recommend are only made from quality materials, and are guaranteed to last you a long, long time.

The Best Large Dildos Available Today

So, without further ado, here are my top 5 picks for dildos in the category.

Seriously, you don’t need to look any further, these are the cream of the crop of the XL market.

1. King Cock Extra Girthy Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 9.5 Inch

King Cock Extra Girthy Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo

This seriously has it all.

If you’ve been looking for something long, which has serious girth, this is the one you’ll want.

It’s a super impressive 9.5 inches long and the girth will fill you right up nicely.

And the benefits certainly don’t end there!

It’s super lifelike, so much so that you may just mistake it for the real thing.

And, it comes with a suction cup on the base so you can stick it to almost any firm surface and ride for hours hands free.


  • This is huge in both length and girth.
  • The head is firm, yet a little flexible, for hitting your special spots just right.
  • It’s super lifelike looking.
  • The suction cup base on the bottom allows for hands free play time.


  • A few users wish the base was a little easier to hang onto.
  • It may not be ideal for anal play as the base is not super thick.

2. King Cock Mega Girthy Realistic Black Suction Cup Dildo 14 Inch

King Cock Mega Girthy Realistic Black Suction Cup Dildo

There are big opitons, and then there are absolutely huge ones.

And this one is the biggest one you’re going to find!

Seriously, this is a giant.

When you truly want to be fully filled up, you’ll want to use this.

If you’ve been using larger sized toys for a while now, and are ready for the big times, it’s time to move up to using this huge dildo.

It’s a whooping 14 inches long and so girthy it will make you gasp!

It is super realistic looking, and you’ll feel every vein and bulge as you use it.

And, as if that wasn’t enough, this also has a suction cup base, so stick it to the wall, the kitchen counter, or anywhere else you want and free up your hands for pleasuring your other parts.


  • This is seriously the biggest, longest, girthiest, dildo you’ll find!
  • The base is a nice size to hang onto and maneuver.
  • It’s so realistic looking and the veins and head will create some awesome extra sensations.
  • The suction cup base on this means you can free up your hands for pleasuring yourself or your partner.


This is absolutely huge, and may be too big for people not used to already using big toys.

3. John Holmes Realistic Dildo

John Holmes Realistic Dildo

This dildo is handcrafted to be an exact replica of legendary adult star John Holmes’ super famous penis. No detail was spared from the size, to the color, to all the awesome bulges.

It’s made from a UR3 material to make this even more realistic looking and feeling than most others.

The length is great for anyone looking for a lot more than their average dildo.

And the girth is pretty darn impressive as well.

This big toy is a fantastic choice for someone who is ready to graduate from a regular sized dildo to a large one.

And, this also comes with an awesome suction cup base you can attach to almost anywhere you feel like riding it.


  • This is the most realistic looking and feeling dildo out there.
  • If you’re a fan of John Holmes, you’ll want to get this!
  • This is a great size for anyone feeling a little intimidated moving up the size ladder.
  • It has a great suction cup you can stick anywhere for hands free play.
  • The base is great to hold onto.


  • This may not be quite big enough for some people.

4. Mr. Marcus’s 9 Incher

Mr. Marcus's 9 Incher

This is yet another offering made in honor of a popular adult star.

And this one doesn’t disappoint either!

If you’re looking for more length than girth this is the option you’re going to want to get!

The length is guaranteed to give you exactly the large size you’re craving to hit you deep and hard.

Now don’t get me wrong, the girth is pretty darn impressive too, but this is all about the length.

The suction cup that comes with an included base provides you with endless options for hands free play.


  • If you’re a fan of Mr. Marcus you’ll love this.
  • This will give you exactly what you’ve been craving in length.
  • This is another dildo which is great for people just graduating into using bigger toys.
  • The suction cup base provides endless options for using this hands free.
  • It has a large base so it is easy to hold and maneuver manually as well.


  • Some users wish the girth was a little larger.

5. Master Series Vibrating Dildo XL

Master Series Vibrating Dildo XL

This dildo is big time!

It’s extra long and extra thick, and is guaranteed to bring you all the pleasure you’ve been craving.

Plus, there’s a special handle which allows you, or a partner, to maneuver it in and out of you.

And as if that wasn’t enough, this offers you even more exciting benefits.

It vibrates!

Yes, this incredible dildo has a variety of vibration speeds and patterns and you’re absolutely guaranteed to be blown away from all the extra pleasure.


  • This very long, and shockingly thick!
  • The special handle makes this dildo incredibly easy to maneuver.
  • The raised textures and bulbous head offer extra stimulation.
  • This dildo has a vast amount of vibration settings, speeds, and patterns.
  • It takes batteries, so there’s no pesky cords to get in the way.


  • A few users have said they it was a bit more curved.
  • There’s no suction cup on the bottom so someone will likely have to hang onto it during play.

Which Toy is Ranked #1?

So, there you have it my friends.

My 5 picks are all unique and they all offer you something just a little bit different.

And seriously these are the only choices out there that are worth your time and money.

But if I had to only pick only one.

My absolute favorite out of these 5 is the King Cock Extra Girthy Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo.

It’s a fabulous size for anyone wanting to play with a huge toy, without it being super intimidating.

Plus, it just looks and feels great.

And there’s nothing quite like having a suction cup on your dildo so you can attach it to your shower wall, glass coffee table, or anywhere else you just want to ride and go wild!

Pick up one of these now and have some big time fun!